I changed my password on my Iphone cuz I broke up with my bf and he still hangs around my house and now I forgot what I changed it to.. I'm trying to restore my iphone to default settings. i have it on the screen with the usb cord and the itunes logo but i tried bringing it up in my itunes and it isn't showing up in the devices.I've tried recovery mode and it still won't recognize it.. someone help pleaseeeee

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